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Behind the smile: The burden this Lions DB carried until a spiritual breakthrough

ALLEN PARK -- Whether Terrion Arnold had a good or bad game -- or even just a good or bad day -- it’s rare to catch him without a smile or laugh.

But behind that easygoing demeanor was a young man carrying the weight of the world on his shoulders, as life, responsibilities, and tough decisions weighed heavily on him -- something his friend Jason Wilson could see clearly.

Following the Detroit Lions’ season-opening loss to the division rival Green Bay Packers -- a result that sent fans and media alike into a mild panic -- Arnold was coming off one of his poorest showings. In addition to being part of multiple busted coverages, he also suffered a groin injury.

Wilson, who leads Detroit’s Cave of Adullam Transformational Training Academy -- a local nonprofit that mentors boys and men through faith-based emotional and spiritual development -- reached out to Arnold not to talk about football or his performance, but because he sensed something deeper weighing on the young defender.

The academy’s mission is to teach and transform boys into physically conscious men, mentally sharp and spiritually grounded, helping them navigate life’s pressures without being consumed by emotion -- a purpose that aligned with what Wilson saw in Arnold’s moment of struggle.

“He called me and said, ‘Man, I can just see the look on your face. It looks like you’re carrying a burden.’ Which I was,” Arnold told MLive. “And just him being able to recognize that -- as a believer and follower of Christ -- and me being able to accept that and put my trust in Jesus, that was everything. And we just talked.”

Arnold and Wilson first connected last season during one of the team’s rookie retreats, when the Lions visited Wilson’s center with director of player engagement Sean Pugh.

From there, the two stayed in touch, leading to deeper conversations about where Arnold’s faith stood.

“It was one of those things where he asked me if I remembered when I came to know Jesus, my Lord and Savior,” Arnold said. “I told him when I was younger, but I didn’t really remember specifically. He said oftentimes we make those decisions because of our parents -- which isn’t a bad thing -- but it’s our parents advising us because they want us to grow up like that.

“But then, being able to get older, gain more understanding, and make that decision on my own was big. I told him I picked up the Bible and didn’t even know where to start reading. Being able to be honest, and him not being perfect either -- talking about his own experiences -- and just me being able to answer that call, that was big, man.”

The bond between Arnold and Wilson grew stronger over time, ultimately leading to Wilson baptizing Arnold three days before the Lions hosted the Cleveland Browns at Ford Field.

The two initially met for what was supposed to be a training session. Still, it quickly became something more -- a spiritual breakthrough that Wilson described as Arnold making “the greatest interception of all: taking his life back from the world and giving it fully to Christ.”

“I would just say, man, the burden of life -- expectations and just the pressure we have, which is a privilege,” Arnold said when describing what he was dealing with. “I’m one of those guys who expects and demands a lot from myself, and I know my teammates do also. So just being able to be that full person and grow from that -- I’d say not just grow in football but in life.

“Being 22 years old, expectations and everything we deal with off the field, too. So being able to not have to mask it or cover it up, and being able to give it to God, that was everything for me.”

Since his baptism, Arnold said he’s already felt like a new person off the field -- and a more confident player on it. He pointed to the Lions’ Week 5 matchup against the Cincinnati Bengals as proof.

In that game, Arnold had two passes defended, while Bengals quarterback Jake Browning completed 50 percent of his throws for just 28 yards when targeting him. Browning finished with a 63.2 passer rating on those attempts -- one of Arnold’s stronger performances of the season.

It was a timely bounce-back for a young defender who had faced mounting criticism from fans and media alike for his early-season struggles. Yet even amid that noise, Arnold’s perspective had shifted.

“I think the first thing is a lot of people don’t really know the job we’re asked to do,” he said. “You just see a big play happen and automatically think it’s on the DB. Being a DB, you have to be full of confidence -- and that’s one thing I am; everybody knows that.

“As far as the adjustment, I mean, friends, family, learning how to navigate being one of the only ones from where you come from -- everybody trying to pull you in a certain direction, trying to advise you -- but at the same time, you have to go into the building and forget all that and be there for your teammates. Because if you’re not, then you’re doing them and yourself a disservice.”

“I look at it like this: growing up, everybody has a sad story. It’s just a matter of whether you’re successful or not if your story gets told. That’s the truth of it. If you’re not having success, then the same battle you went through might not get told -- and another kid going through what you went through might not get to see it if you give up.”

That shift in perspective has helped Arnold embrace the growing pains that come with being a young player at his position in the NFL. He’s now using every rep and every conversation -- including those with former league greats -- as a lesson.

“Even just talking to Chad Johnson, I look at cornerback play differently,” Arnold said. “I play man-to-man, so it’s a lot of things. I don’t sit back in a cover scheme -- cover four, cover two, a bunch of safety help over the top. When I go out there, I’m seeing the best, I’m playing against the best, and I’m growing from it. A perfect example would be Darius Slay -- it takes time to get it.

“My whole thing is, my granddad always told me, ‘You don’t want to be a flash in the pan.’ I don’t want to go out there and have one good year and that’s it. Nah, I want to be able to see the constant growth year in and year out, game in and game out.”

There were early concerns that Arnold might miss significant time after suffering a shoulder injury in that Bengals matchup. Still, he has since returned to practice, avoiding an injured reserve designation. He’s expected to return soon after the bye week.

The verdict is still out on how the rest of his season will unfold, but one thing seems clear: the Lions might benefit tremendously from Arnold’s life-changing decision -- because faith didn’t just lighten his load; it reshaped the way he carries it.

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